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Jess, The Creator's avatar

💙 A question for you:

What’s something you’ve done well lately that you’ve been minimizing?

Maybe you called it luck. Said you just helped. Gave everyone else the credit. Or decided it wasn’t a big enough deal to mention.

Try naming it without shrinking it: "I did this. I’m proud of it."

If you’re comfortable, tell us one thing you’re giving yourself credit for today. No disclaimer required.

Dr Deborah Vinall's avatar

There's also culture informing our responses. Americans are seen as quite braggadocios by other nations. Europeans, particularly in the North, value quiet humility. In the USA, self-aggrandizement is so normalized (for men) that people actually admire and elect blatant narcissists. So when cultures come together, it can be a lot to navigate.

Grace Beyond Scars By Sharon's avatar

Thank you for this

Jess, The Creator's avatar

You’re welcome, Sharon! 🫶🫶

Mick's avatar

"Your work doesn't have a mouth" is such a great mic drop Jess! Thanks for the reminder!!!

Jess, The Creator's avatar

Thanks, Mick!! 🔊🙌🔊