We tend to interpret that discomfort as failure when it’s often just the nervous system adjusting to a new pattern of life. I appreciate the emphasis on anchoring to values rather than circumstances, because circumstances shift constantly while the deeper direction of the heart can remain steady. In many ways it reminds me how small internal shifts accumulate over time and gradually reshape who we become. I explored that idea recently in a reflection called Compound Iniquity, about how tiny inner movements slowly form the direction of a life. If that resonates, I’d love to hear your thoughts: https://theeternalnowmm.substack.com/p/compound-iniquity
Incredible piece, Jessica. Understanding the 'hidden grief inside growth' is a concept anyone trying to build something new or force a transition needs to grasp. Really valuable perspective.
Love this, Jessica! I can personally attest to your point regarding repetition. Once I was able to handle uncertainty enough times, it starts to show up integrated with your nervous system instead of resisting against it.
Thank you, Dido! Yeah after the repetition you build skill, resilience, emotional capacity, a bigger window of tolerance, maybe more patience and more emotional control.
Thank you, Tiff! I’m glad my article resonated with you at the perfect time especially since it wasn’t planned! As you know lot articles I’m writing to myself so maybe it’s because we’re both navigating new change and uncertainties right now.
This Jess. This is such a helpful post for helping us to better understand why change should be a natural part of our evolution, but why it ca sometimes feel hard and surprising. 🙏
Thank you for sharing this, there’s so much peace that comes from embracing change 💛 an excellent piece! 🙌😊
thank you, Sonia! I appreciate you so much!🫶
We tend to interpret that discomfort as failure when it’s often just the nervous system adjusting to a new pattern of life. I appreciate the emphasis on anchoring to values rather than circumstances, because circumstances shift constantly while the deeper direction of the heart can remain steady. In many ways it reminds me how small internal shifts accumulate over time and gradually reshape who we become. I explored that idea recently in a reflection called Compound Iniquity, about how tiny inner movements slowly form the direction of a life. If that resonates, I’d love to hear your thoughts: https://theeternalnowmm.substack.com/p/compound-iniquity
This speaks volume:..... " In reality, acceptance is what allows the nervous system to settle."
accepting what's within your control comes with peace.
Most definitely, Joseph! Getting out of the denial phase on the way to acceptance is a huge step and helps bring so much peace.
This is thoughtful and steady — exploring impermanence without drama makes the reflection feel grounded and quietly profound. - Coach Fergie
Amazing
appreciate you, Catherine
Incredible piece, Jessica. Understanding the 'hidden grief inside growth' is a concept anyone trying to build something new or force a transition needs to grasp. Really valuable perspective.
thank you so much, JP! I appreciate you reading and glad you found it valuable! we must grieve the loss of our old self that no longer fits anymore.
Love this, Jessica! I can personally attest to your point regarding repetition. Once I was able to handle uncertainty enough times, it starts to show up integrated with your nervous system instead of resisting against it.
Thank you, Dido! Yeah after the repetition you build skill, resilience, emotional capacity, a bigger window of tolerance, maybe more patience and more emotional control.
As always your post comes at the perfect time! Thanks for the reminder and gentle nudge forward 😊
Thank you, Tiff! I’m glad my article resonated with you at the perfect time especially since it wasn’t planned! As you know lot articles I’m writing to myself so maybe it’s because we’re both navigating new change and uncertainties right now.
This Jess. This is such a helpful post for helping us to better understand why change should be a natural part of our evolution, but why it ca sometimes feel hard and surprising. 🙏
Thank you, Dr. Sam! Change is the only constant in life!