The Science of Feeling Better: Three Habits That Will Transform Your Health, Energy, and Longevity
How movement, presence, and connection change your brain, lengthen your life, and heal your stress.
“Heal yourself, not so you can thrive, but to ensure that people who cross your path in the future are safer from harm.”
A Note from Me
Hi, I’m Jessica.
After years of working in medicine, and a lifetime of witnessing both healing and heartache, I’ve come to believe something simple, but radical: optimal health isn’t built in massive life overhauls.
Health is made in small, daily decisions.
This article is about three such decisions—grounded in neuroscience, backed by research, and powerful enough to change your life.
The 3 Habits That Transform Your Health, Energy, and Longevity
Move your body daily.
Be present and disconnect often.
Prioritize real relationships.
If you're overwhelmed by the sea of health advice—biohacks, supplements, exercise trends—this article is your reset.
Because the truth is, the most powerful, science-backed strategies for your health are free.
They don’t require a wellness retreat, a cold plunge, or a morning routine that starts at 4:30 a.m.
They require consistency, intention, and a willingness to come back to what your body and brain have needed all along.
Let’s break down the three habits every high-performing brain and resilient body needs—and why they work.
1. Move Your Body Daily
Because movement changes your brain before it changes your body.
You already know exercise supports physical health, but what most people don’t realize is that daily movement is essential for mental health, brain health, and even emotional regulation.
🧠 The Neuroscience of Movement:
Movement boosts the production of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF)—a key protein that supports learning, memory, and emotional resilience.
It helps your brain build new neural pathways and enhances neuroplasticity.
So when you move your body, you’re quite literally training your brain to be more adaptive and emotionally balanced.
Research also shows that consistent physical activity reduces inflammation in the brain and regulates the stress response by lowering cortisol and increasing endorphins and serotonin.
And here’s what matters most:
You don’t need a gym. You don’t need an hour. You just need to move your body on purpose.
Go for a walk, stretch, dance in your kitchen, practice yoga, do squats and push-ups at your desk, park further away, and take the stairs.
Consistency is more powerful than intensity.
2. Be Present and Disconnect Regularly
Because distraction is draining you.
The average person touches their phone over 2,600 times per day.
We check messages, scroll feeds, respond to dings and pings—and in doing so, we train our brain to crave stimulation and avoid stillness.
However, stillness is where healing begins and presence is the most powerful state for rewiring your mind.
🧠 The Neuroscience of Presence
Presence activates the default mode network (DMN) of the brain—linked to introspection, memory consolidation, and creativity, but when overstimulated, the DMN becomes hyperactive, contributing to anxiety and rumination.
Practicing presence through mindfulness or screen-free moments reduces DMN overactivity and strengthens the prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for decision-making, emotional regulation, and focus.
Disconnecting even briefly throughout your day gives your brain a dopamine reset, helping you regain clarity, reduce anxiety, and reconnect with yourself.
Try this:
Start your morning without your phone.
Take one 30-minute walk or do a 20-minute yoga flow without any tech.
Eat one meal a day without screens or distractions.
Small rituals, massive impact.
3. Prioritize & Nurture Real Relationships
Because connection is medicine.
Loneliness is more dangerous than smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
That’s not a metaphor—it’s a scientific fact.
Human beings are wired for connection.
Relationships aren’t just emotionally supportive—they’re biologically essential.
🧠 The Neuroscience of Relationships
Healthy relationships stimulate oxytocin, the hormone that enhances bonding and reduces stress.
Relationships also regulate your nervous system. Being seen, heard, and understood by another human being activates the ventral vagal complex, which calms your heart rate, blood pressure, and stress hormones.
Chronic disconnection, on the other hand, activates the threat response system, increasing inflammation and contributing to anxiety, depression, and immune dysfunction.
The antidote? Make time to truly connect.
Call your friend. Share how you feel.
Be the one who checks in.
Relationships are one of the strongest predictors of longevity and life satisfaction—not your salary, not your possessions, and not your zip code.
The people around you matter most.
Final Thoughts: Simple Doesn’t Mean Easy
These three habits are simple, but they’re not easy.
They require discipline in a world that’s constantly distracting you, but they’re worth it.
They’re the foundation of a longer, healthier, more energized life.
Every time you move, disconnect, or show up for someone else—you’re healing your body, retraining your brain, and expanding your capacity for joy.
It’s not about being perfect.
It’s about choosing practices that keep you grounded in what matters most.
Start small. Start now. Start, today!!
Your future self will thank you.
Thank you for reading this article.
Until next Sunday,
—Jessica
Your 2am friend who actually gets it
“It is not easy healing yourself, building new habits, and observing reality without projection or delusion. This is work that takes effort, but if you persist, the fruits of your labor will have an immensely positive impact on your life.“ —Yung Pueblo
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This content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice or to take the place of such advice or treatment from a personal physician. All readers/viewers of this content are advised to consult their doctors or qualified health professionals regarding specific health questions. All viewers of this content, especially those taking prescription or over-the-counter medications, should consult their physicians before beginning any nutrition, supplement or lifestyle program.
Love this one Jess! 🤸🏻 Thank for you the reminder to disconnect from the screens, it’s easier said than done in our line of work but is so important nonetheless!
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